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The Quorum is Toxic

How many people must die before we agree that something is fundamentally wrong with the way we understand love, power and violence? Zimbabwe is once again confronting the horror of intimate partner violence. Recent killings have ignited public debate, outrage, speculation and the familiar rush to explain the unexplainable. Women have been killed by men. Men have been killed by women. Families have been shattered, children traumatised and communities left trying to make sense of violence that should never have happened. Yet something about this moment demands a harder conversation: why does our collective urgency so often depend on who the victim is? Male victims deserve compassion, justice, protection and the freedom to speak without ridicule. Their suffering must never be minimised because they are men. But we must also be honest about the history of this conversation. Women, survivors, feminists and community organisations have spent decades documenting gender-based violence, warning...

Rethinking Representation: Reflection from COP29

Attending COP29 in Baku, Azerbaijan, was a transformative experience that reshaped my understanding of global climate governance, reinforced my advocacy priorities, and pushed me to think more boldly about solutions to the climate crisis. The event was more than a summit; it was a convergence of ideas, voices, and commitments from across the globe. As a climate justice advocate, I was proud to join other changemakers in influencing policy, building networks, and pushing for equitable solutions to the challenges we face. However, beyond the dynamic plenaries and high-level negotiations, COP29 provided opportunities for critical self-reflection, offering lessons on the systemic gaps in climate governance and inspiring new initiatives that could address these challenges. It is these experiences, insights, and visions that I aim to share here, sparking deeper conversations on what lies ahead for inclusive and transformative climate action. Opportunities: Building Momentum and Leadership CO...

Activism Burnout: When Fighting for Gender Equality Takes a Toll

The fight for gender equality is deeply personal. It’s about more than just changing laws or creating policies ,it’s about people’s lives. For someone like me, who has spent countless hours advocating for gender equity, working with survivors, and fighting against ingrained societal norms, this cause is a calling. It’s rooted in the belief that all people, regardless of their gender, deserve the same rights, opportunities, and respect in every aspect of life. But this fight comes with a cost, a heavy toll that isn’t often spoken about. You see, the fire that once burned brightly within me ,the drive to make a difference—sometimes dims. The work that once fueled my every waking hour now leaves me feeling drained, exhausted, and questioning if I can keep going. This is the reality of activism burnout, a phenomenon that so many of us, especially in gender activism, come face to face with. The Heavy Toll of Activism Burnout isn't just about needing a day off; it's a deep, suffocati...

Exploring Masculinities in SRHR Programs and Policies: A Zimbabwean and African Context

Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR) encompass a range of issues affecting individuals and communities, including sexual health, reproductive health, gender equality, and human rights. Traditional SRHR programs have often focused on women's empowerment, emphasizing their autonomy and rights. However, there's a growing recognition of the need to address masculinities and engage men in these conversations. This pierce explores the future of addressing masculinities in SRHR programs and policies, with a focus on Zimbabwe and Africa at large. It examines existing policies, identifies gaps, and outlines potential solutions. Masculinity encompasses a set of societal expectations and norms associated with being male. It is a social construct that shapes behaviors, attitudes, and roles within society. In many African contexts, including Zimbabwe, traditional notions of masculinity emphasize strength, dominance, and control. These expectations can contribute to gender-based ...

Embracing Reproductive Justice

  In the ongoing struggle for gender equality and bodily autonomy, the debate surrounding the legalization of abortion remains a contentious and deeply personal issue. As a male feminist, I believe it is imperative to engage in this discourse and advocate for policies that affirm the rights and agency of all individuals, regardless of gender. In this comprehensive analysis, I will delve into the multifaceted reasons why legalizing abortion is not only a matter of women's rights but a fundamental aspect of social justice. At the heart of the argument for legalizing abortion lies the principle of bodily autonomy. As feminists, we assert that individuals have the inherent right to make decisions about their own bodies, free from coercion or interference. Denying individuals access to safe and legal abortion services infringes upon this fundamental right, perpetuating a system of control and oppression over their reproductive choices. Moreover, the criminalization or restriction of abo...

Getting Personal

I just thought it might be good if l pen down my personal experience as a male feminist in Africa   In the heart of Zimbabwe, amidst the vibrant tapestry of culture and tradition, lies the story of myself (Rodney Kudakwashe Mutombo)—a beacon of hope in a sea of gender inequality, navigating the tumultuous waters of feminism from within the confines of a glass closet. To be a young male feminist in Zimbabwe is to walk a tightrope suspended between two worlds the expectations of society on one side, and the unwavering commitment to gender equality on the other. For me, the journey began with a whisper a soft realization that the struggles of women were not distant echoes, but stark realities echoing through the corridors of my own life. Yet, to wear the label of feminist is to invite scorn and ridicule from my fellow men a torrent of verbal abuse that cuts like a blade, tearing at the fabric of my masculinity. In a society where patriarchy reigns supreme, to advocate for gender ...

Beyond The Pavements, a sad reality l have witnessed in the past months

In the bustling streets of Harare, amidst the honking cars and hurried footsteps, there exists a heartbreaking reality for homeless girl children. These vulnerable individuals face unimaginable hardships, compounded by the lack of access to Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR) services. Their plight is a poignant reflection of systemic neglect and the devastating impact of climate change on the most marginalized communities. For a homeless girl child in Harare, every day is a struggle for survival. Without a stable home or family support, basic necessities like food, shelter, and clothing become elusive dreams. But it's the absence of SRHR access that plunges these girls into a cycle of despair and vulnerability. Denied proper healthcare and education about their bodies, they are left defenseless against the threats of early pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and sexual exploitation. Picture a young girl, barely in her teens, wandering the streets in tat...

Men as Endangered Species: Is the Future Feminine? Maleness in religious circles

In recent years, there has been a growing concern over the status of men in religious circles, particularly regarding the use of religion to perpetuate inequality. This trend raises questions about the future of masculinity within these contexts and its implications for society at large. The Role of Religion in Perpetuating Gender Inequality Religious institutions have historically played a significant role in shaping societal norms and values, including those related to gender roles and expectations. In many cases, traditional interpretations of religious texts have been used to justify the subordination of women and the reinforcement of male dominance. Within religious communities, men are often positioned as leaders and authority figures, while women are relegated to subordinate roles. This hierarchical structure not only limits opportunities for women but also places immense pressure on men to conform to rigid gender norms that may be detrimental to their well-being. Masculinity in...

Child Marriages: A Dual Pandemic in Zimbabwe's Rural and Farming Areas

In Zimbabwe's rural and farming areas, the prevalence of child marriages has become a concerning issue. This practice involves the union of children, mostly girls, before they reach the age of 18. Not only does child marriage violate the rights of these young individuals, but it also exacerbates the challenges already faced due to climate change. This piece aims to shed light on the real issues surrounding child marriages within the context of Zimbabwe's rural and farming areas. Zimbabwe, like many other developing countries, grapples with the adverse effects of climate change, leading to heightened vulnerability in rural and farming communities. Changes in weather patterns, such as prolonged droughts and flash floods, disrupt agricultural productivity, exacerbate poverty levels, and foster food insecurity. In such dire circumstances, child marriages often emerge as a coping strategy for families to alleviate economic strain and secure their livelihoods. Drivers of Child Marria...

Open Letter To You

 Dear fellow Women Human Rights Defenders, As we enter into this festive season, I want to take a moment to address all of you and encourage you to prioritize self-care during this time. It's essential that we preserve our own well-being so that we can continue to fight for gender equality and the emancipation of women in the coming year. The work we do is crucial, but it can also be emotionally and physically exhausting. That's why it's important to take breaks and engage in activities that rejuvenate us. Use this festive season as an opportunity to recharge and refocus. Here are a few suggestions for self-care during this short break: 1. Rest and relaxation: Take some time to rest and restore your energy. Engage in activities that promote relaxation, such as reading, meditating, or taking long walks in nature. Remember, self-care looks different for everyone, so do what brings you peace. 2. Connect with loved ones: Spend quality time with your family and friends. Surround...

Behind well crafted policies, a hidden reality is saddening

Gender inequity and the underrepresentation of women in politics is indeed a pressing issue in the Southern African Development Community (SADC) region. While policies may exist to promote gender equality, the reality reveals a less promising picture. Well, let us delve into a  contextual analysis of this issue. To begin, it is important to acknowledge that gender inequality is deeply rooted in historical and cultural norms within the SADC countries. Traditional gender roles, societal expectations, and biases pose significant barriers to women's active participation in politics. Deep-seated patriarchal systems perpetuate the notion that men are better suited for leadership positions, while women are often confined to domestic roles and seen as less capable in the public sphere. Despite regional commitments and international conventions promoting gender equality, progress in increasing women's political representation has been relatively slow in most SADC countries. A variety of...