The Quorum is Toxic
How many people must die before we agree that something is fundamentally wrong with the way we understand love, power and violence? Zimbabwe is once again confronting the horror of intimate partner violence. Recent killings have ignited public debate, outrage, speculation and the familiar rush to explain the unexplainable. Women have been killed by men. Men have been killed by women. Families have been shattered, children traumatised and communities left trying to make sense of violence that should never have happened. Yet something about this moment demands a harder conversation: why does our collective urgency so often depend on who the victim is? Male victims deserve compassion, justice, protection and the freedom to speak without ridicule. Their suffering must never be minimised because they are men. But we must also be honest about the history of this conversation. Women, survivors, feminists and community organisations have spent decades documenting gender-based violence, warning...